Being Helpful

Sangeetha Venkatesan
2 min readMar 17, 2024

It's very easy to be helpful to yourself when compared to others

Dalle — Credits

“Charm” and “radiance” come within — I have come across many such people.

But stop and think about it, nowadays, people think they are doing a much sacrificial job of being helpful to themselves.

It's tough being helpful to people around you! Contributing exponentially more than you consume is not world expects, at least on par with what you consume! We have to be mindful of that.

People who are leaders right now are not the ones who think they are leaders, they are the ones who just think of themselves as another person contributing to society.

A LIFE with having lived, a useful life — what does it mean? Ask this question every day before sending that hateful message to a friend, to a family member, or to any person when you are angry!

“Words can be substituted with better words eventually, but they can never be erased.”

There are enormous things to learn from self-education and education we observe from the outside world, self-education is taken extremely lightly, but that's the one going to stand tall and give a hand when you see a fall in your life.

Life's trajectory should always have a mix of art and career you are passionate about! Be creative in writing, listening, and speaking — those are the people bringing lighter moments at home.

We need to be made aware that we speak more than we ingest about a problem. It's like a useless token of words that's just being said for the sake of saying!

EXTRAPOLATION” in the life of thoughts is difficult, it takes years to cultivate it to have a grounded view of any problem that comes forth. People from different walks of life need to be appreciated regardless of their age — I have friends who are much older, and younger than me.

Don't overlap with who you are with just your thoughts — find an overlap in thoughts or aspirations you want to be!

Reading a broad range of thoughts is so underrated — condense it and apply it in any possible way you can!

“Embrace the thoughts of others, the only method to enhance your own is by sharing your knowledge and receiving what others are willingly eager to offer.”

There is often a lack of ‘helpfulness’ within oneself! Those who recognize this don’t rush and chatter, but instead take a moment to pause, reflect, and communicate clearly!

To end with,

BECOME USEFUL!

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Sangeetha Venkatesan

NLP Engineer, Language actors talking the stage with large language models!